Getting Your Kid Into Gaming – Tips for Parents
As a parent, you may be wondering if you should introduce your child to video games, and if so, how to do it in a healthy way. Gaming can be a fun way for kids to relax and socialize, but it’s important to set reasonable limits. Here are some tips for getting your kid into gaming while avoiding potential downsides.
Decide If Gaming Is Right for Your Kid
The first step is deciding if gaming is appropriate for your child’s age and personality. Most experts recommend not introducing gaming to children under 2 years old, as it can harm development. From ages 3-5, restrict gaming to less than one hour per day of high-quality, educational games played together. For older kids, moderate gaming can be fine with proper limits in place.
Consider your child’s temperament and self-regulation abilities. Impulsive or hyperactive kids may be more prone to overdoing gaming and need closer supervision. Less impulsive kids can probably manage more independence but still need guidance. Also factor in your child’s interests – if they aren’t asking for games, don’t push them onto something just because it’s popular.
Set Limits and Rules Early On
Before introducing any gaming device, create a family media plan with specific rules and limitations. Make sure your kids understand these. Example rules:
- No gaming during the week/on school nights
- Only play for a set time limit per day (30 min for young kids, 1-2 hrs for older)
- No gaming until chores and homework are done
- No playing mature games or making unapproved purchases
Use device parental controls to enforce limits. Disable chat functions if needed. Make kids earn game time by behaving well and completing obligations.
Choose Age-Appropriate Games
The ESRB (Entertainment Software Rating Board) gives every game a rating based on content, ranging from EC (Early Childhood) to Mature and Adults Only. Follow these ratings – don’t allow kids to play titles labelled as containing violence, sexual content, or drugs/alcohol unless you’ve verified the content first.
Good starter genres include platformers, creative/building simulators, non-violent sports games, kids’ educational games, and family-friendly party games. Play with your kid at first so you can model good gaming habits.
Watch for Warning Signs of Too Much Gaming
While gaming can be beneficial in moderation, watch for these signs of unhealthy overuse:
- Worsening school performance
- Lack of interest in other hobbies
- Complaints from teachers about gaming habits
- Becoming moody, aggressive, or depressed
- Lying about gaming use
- Isolating themselves to game instead of spending time with family/friends
If you see multiple signs, it’s time to enforce stricter limits on play time. Get kids involved in other hobbies too. Consult a counselor if problems persist.
Encourage Healthy Gaming Habits
- Limit sedentary play time with movement breaks
- Remind kids to make eye contact and sit up straight rather than hunching over
- Ensure the play area has adequate lighting
- Encourage interaction – play cooperatively or take turns instead of solo gaming all day
- Be interested in the games your kids love and discuss content with them
Following these tips can help make gaming a fun family activity rather than a source of conflict. The key is involved parenting, fostering moderation, and ensuring kids have balanced interests.
